MirMar

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[MirMar @amirumarr]

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One uncomfortable reality that ramai orang tak suka nak acknowledge is that society doesn't judge poor spouse selection equally between men and women.

Bila seorang perempuan tersalah pilih lelaki, society generally akan extend sympathy dekat dia. The blame goes to the husband that she chose, or kat wali yang meluluskan the marriage.

Whether we like it or not, women are often given the benefit of being viewed primarily as victims bila marriage gagal.

For men, though, expectation masyarakat jauh lebih brutal.

Siapa perempuan you pilih jadi bini, then the consequences of that choice, fundamentally, are your responsibility to face. Society tak bagi lelaki the luxury nak lari dari accountability for a decision he made himself.

Part of the reason is simple.

Dalam Islam, the power of talak ultimately rests in the hands of the man. Sebab tu men are seen as the one holding the exit door to a marriage. Kalau seorang lelaki benar-benar percaya the marriage is beyond saving, or his wife betul-betul a disaster, he has a way out yang relatively wanita tak ada dengan ease yang sama.

A woman trapped with a problematic husband selalunya kena deal dengan legal processes, family pressure, financial dependency, and the question of children in which semua tu buatkan jalan keluar jauh lebih complicated daripada sekadar "leave and move on".

But beyond all the debates about rights, responsibilities, and accountability, ada satu benda lagi besar yang ramai modern people dah lupa pasal marriage.

Marriage needs to be understood as something bigger than biology.

It's an act of ibadah.
It's effort to bring to life the Sunnah of the Prophet.
It's a shared journey towards the redha of Allah.
It's a school tempat you belajar sabar, syukur, sacrifice, leadership, and rahmah.

Once lelaki benar-benar faham benda ni, the way he sees himself as a husband and as the head of the family will change completely.

He no longer sees himself as a passenger yang rasa entitled nak complain every time the sea gets rough.

He is the captain. And every captain knows the sea was never promised to be calm.

You chose to belayar.
You yang kemudi.
And ultimately, you're the one who akan dipersoalkan where you navigate that ship.

You'll have a hard time digesting this concept kalau you're the type of guy who sees/treats women as your equal and conveniently lupa that the Prophet long ago informed us women itu kurang akal and kurang agama.

You cannot enjoy the warmth of femininity if you refuse to deal with their deficiency.

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Juling mata jawab soalan PTD ni

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Eden Hazard signed for Chelsea #OnThisDay in 2012. 💙✨

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Gabriel has cheated ALL season

He has bullied players,fouled them consistently & conned other teams out of goals & decisions all year

That Gabriel is the reason Arsenal did not win the Champions League is karma and is a victory for football

Karma is a bitch. As is Gabriel.

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Tak perlu European competition next season sebab dah menang semua. Package sekali UEFA Super Cup hihi

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Memang patut do JP tak dapat call up Brazil

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Why Fofana you kill the momentum

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Macam tu la Palmer!

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Teruk gila bhai chelsea main haha

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Select sia orang biasa tak boleh beli tiket Chelsea JDT harini

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The agreement is set to be completed.

#CFC prepare official announcement for the upcoming days, but Xabi said YES. 💣