Pisses me off when people put you in the worst situation ever and get upset about the way you respond to it, genuinely what did you expect ? For me to think that shits still cupcakes and rainbows ?
The scapegoat child is always the strongest child in a Narcissistic family.
Not because they wanted to be strong.
But because they had no choice. The family needed someone to carry all the shame the narcissist couldn't carry so they picked the most empathetic one:
"vc não merecia isso" na verdade eu mereci sim, porque não tinha amor próprio e sabia que devia ter ido embora no primeiro desrespeito, mas sempre tento ver o lado bom das pessoas.
One thing I cannot tolerate at this grown age is people who refuse to understand cause and effect. Your actions produced this outcome. Why are you shocked by the consequences of something you deliberately set in motion, then standing there playing victim?
I tried to explain my life to someone once,I realised that it is so bizarre and weird to people who don’t know anything about narcissists you sound crazy and paranoid which reinforces what the narcissist have already told people…now I just exit stage left asap😎 then you become the coward who runs from all the problems you haven’t created…it’s a perfect scheme
A Narcissist is not insane. Insane people don't know what they're doing.
A narcissist knows exactly what they're doing.
The lying, the cheating, the cruelty, the smear campaigns..
"Too busy to text back" is an excuse. I respond right away because you matter, my intentions are clear, and communication is pure respect. If you have to beg someone for basic reassurance, they’re not your person.
Narcissists will cross your boundaries and abuse you and abuse you and the moment you run out of tolerance and respond negatively or simply put up a boundary, they make you out to be the "abuser".