The older I get the more I realise why Yaqub (AS) said: "I only complain my suffering to Allah." (12:86) People don't understand your pain, and neither can they comfort you the way Allah can and does.
As my friend, if you don't voluntarily tell me your business, I won't ask.
It doesn't mean I don't care about you, I avoid nosiness in case you aren't comfortable talking about it.
My husband has a peculiar habit of ringing the doorbell instead of using his keys to enter the house, even when he has them with him. I have been opening the door for him for years now, and i always wonder why he doesn’t use his key instead.
One day, I asked him why he doesn't use his keys, and he replied that he loves to see the happiness on my face when I open the door for him. He also likes it when I greet him with a smile and ask how his day was.
He even admitted that sometimes he purposely waits outside until I come to open the door. Whenever I asked Asher to go open the door, he would say that he wants to see my face instead of Asher's.
Since then, I have been eagerly waiting for him to return home every day, and I stay close to the door so I can hear when he rings the bell. It has become a fun little tradition for us.
@OfficialDadyA2 Thanks 🙏
You'll never truly understand
Marriages
Divorces
Anxieties
Childbirth
Death of a loved one
Parenting
Until it actually happens to you,
Theories and assumptions of situations in life are not realities
You think you are smarter than most until life humbles you when it's your turn.