yโall think being a provider starts & ends with money ๐ญ baby money can pay bills, it cannot provide emotional safety, leadership, consideration or consistency.
Sometimes I accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be considerate of what others are going through & that is a habit I need to let go of expeditiously
My biggest concern as a mom isn't whether i'll make it through the hard days. I know I will. I always do. My biggest fear is looking back one day and realizing I spent so much of their childhood exhausted, overwhelmed, overstimulated, and just trying to survive.