Women never wanted men obsessed with them. We wanted devotion.
Obsession is creepy, controlling, manipulative selfish and even dangerous. This is destructive.
Devotion is loyalty, care, nurturing, selfless protective, patience and consistency. This is respect.
If women don’t lower their standards soon, they’ll die alone in their clean homes, with their regulated nervous systems, balanced PH, clean toilets, friends that support them, & a peace like no other. They better chill..
“the horror was for love” is actually the best quote to describe gothic romance. people dive into it expecting something a bit dark but in most cases it’s horrifying and gut-wrenching. if you accept the horror for what it is though the romance can feel deeply comforting