Anne Loko walked into a dermatologist's office in 2021 looking for answers to what seemed like a routine skin problem. She had no idea that the visit would unravel a life-threatening illness, push her to the brink of death and end in a liver transplant thousands of kilometres from home. #HealthyNation https://t.co/n4cQlGvaSC
@Theholisticpsyc Unavailable feels like home if home was unavailable.
You’re chasing a feeling you’ve been trying to fix since you were a kid. Reaching for someone who couldn’t reach back and calling it love because that’s what you were exposed to early.
You crave depth, being seen, and vulnerability, and they crave distraction, avoidance, and solitude.
They things get difficult, their first instinct is to leave or shut down.
Yours is to come together and figure things out.
When someone's emotionally unavailable, you can feel completely alone in the relationship. You're trying to connect, trying to find middle ground, or trying to "get" them, but they push you away every time.
This sentence by Van Gogh hits hard:
“If I am worth anything later, I am worth something now. For wheat is wheat, even if people think it is a grass in the beginning.”
This sentences by Van Gogh hits hard:
“If I am worth anything later, I am worth something now. For wheat is wheat, even if people think it is a grass in the beginning.”
Renal Patients now finding out that having a benefit package & getting the benefits are not the same thing. The SHA system has been throttled to deny benefits. The approval system is lengthy, tedious & permanently in a foul mood. Very frustrating !
@duale @DrMercyHealth@AbdiMD
Access to the RRT benefit package has been reduced to once a month,meaning we can't get labs & meds in the same month. This is despite the 16k monthly allocation not being depleted. Only accessible at KNH & MTRH,a big inconvenience to many
@HonAdenDuale@AbdiMD@DrMercyHealth
Sadly a lot of 'intellectuals' lack the capacity or will to build and sustain platforms for national conversation. Because its genuinely hard, and that grind sucks. So they will have to settle for being critics and commentators like the rest of us
Your ability to recognise. rationalise, and label your emotions (inadequacy, rejection, abandonment) will not stop you from eventually facing and feeling them
Intellectualising gives the illusion of control.
Understanding the game doesn't preclude you from having to play it.
The SHA Renal Replacement Therapy Tariff for Kidney Transplant management is rigged to throw patients off at every turn. Only accessible at KNH & MTRH,it is out of reach to many. It only allows one access per month meaning you can't get labs and meds same month. Hii ni Hujuma!