I like a stiff nigga! Not in everybody reactions, not overly friendly with different bitches, not out here making himself too accessible. And it ainโt got shit to do with controlling a man. I just like a man who understands how easy it is for another female to mistake friendliness for an opportunity, so he moves in a way that makes it VERY clear ainโt no opportunity over here. ๐๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ
I donโt care if a million more nurses came out, if thatโs what you want to do, do it. Donโt let corny internet slander deter you from what you want to do!
Unfortunately, sometimes you have to get a little mean just to remind people youโre not the one to play with. Everybody doesnโt respect kindness, and some people will keep testing you as long as you keep being nice about it. I can have a good heart and still have boundaries. I can love you and still check you. And I can be kind without allowing anybody to disrespect me. If being nice makes you think Iโm weak, eventually youโre going to meet the version of me that makes you understand the difference.