@CricketopiaCom I understand youngsters didn’t see Botham but he is ahead of Flintoff and Stokes. Longevity from is amazing on top of purple patches like 81 Ashes
After women dismantled the community and village structures through feminism, they began placing the entire burden of what those communities once provided solely on men. women now expect one man to give them everything that an entire village once provided, and then blame that man when he cannot.
Today, one man is expected to:
Provide financially 100%
Still have time to help raise the kids,
Still have time to help cook,
Still have time to help clean,
Still have time to help run the household,
provide 100% emotional labor,
replace her best friend,
Be her therapist,
Be her cheerleader,
keep the romance alive nonstop,
Home maintenance
fix the dead bedroom,
Help heal her trauma,
solve her daddy issues,
manage or understand postpartum struggles,
stabilize finances,
offer endless validation.
Men are now expected to work 60 hours a week, still come home to cook, clean, raise the kids, wake up at night while she is breastfeeding and still perform at work the next day.
One person cannot replace a village. When you dismantle the village and expect one man to become all of it, That’s tyranny disguised as expectation.
@Ibrahimifg Routines are very important, despite being homeschooled your kids will ask every other day why do we have to do homework lol. But once a routine is embedded this stops that. Find other homeschoolers / networks.
I’d recommend any 18 year old to take a gap year and work for that year before deciding on uni.
Get some life experience, earn your own money, pick up some skills.
You’ll be WAY more equipped to know if you want to sign up for an additional tax for life.
@YakoobAhmed0 Saalam. Came across your Ottoman history lectures on YouTube recently. Do you have book recommendations for Ottoman or Islamic history in general ?