Aphobe List FAQ:
- What is 'Aphobia'?
We define aphobia, or amisia, as anything that spreads hate or misinformation towards or about asexuals or aromantics
- Do you use blockchains?
Nope! We block those who tweet aphobia directly or retweet aphobic tweets only
Hey everyone, this is the team from @aphobelist, we ended up taking an unofficial holiday break because @TwitterSupport suspended our account... again
Same tactic as last time. We've submitted an appeal but don't expect any actual results
@cqdillc Asexuality is a queer identity, so if you're asexual and want to be queer/LGBTQ+, you can be, regardless of your other identities -π§π»ββοΈ
Lotta hate going around for demisexuality right now. If you support demis, please say so. Or RT this, if you want. We are here. And we could use some support today, judging from what my search just turned up.
@thearrowace_ Of course. The issue with "acespec" is that often people use it to refer to aros, but as long as you explicitly acknowledge arospecs as separate, you're fine. -π§π»ββοΈ
"Is aspec an autistic term?"
Recently, along with the "ace discourse" that started up a few years ago, this is a huge question that many people have had. So let's take a look at this.
[THREAD / please RT!!]
(scroll to end of thread for Google doc link with more details)
@thearrowace_ @HERMlTTWT Acespec and arospec are used when only one is relevant rather than both, but aspec is still a term that covers both. It is not widely used for autism, and most autistic people don't claim it. -π§π»ββοΈ
@peaceypooh Demisexuality is a form of Asexuality, where one experiences little to no sexual attraction
Specifically, Demisexual people may experience sexual attraction but only after a significant emotional connection
The OG tweet is wildly incorrect and strongly aphobic -π
β¨Asexual Cosplayers Uniteβ¨
Asexuals come in many forms but we are all valid nonetheless. Tag some of your fav ace cosplayers or quote this tweet with your ace intro
Iβm Sloan and Iβm demiromantic asexual and very loud about it XP
We'd love to hear from ace activists and organisers in Asia and Africa if you haven't made contact with us yet. At present we're especially looking for aces in Sudan and Iraq. Please contact [email protected] for more information.
Since ace discourse is having a second (?) revival on Tiktok I'd like to remind people that if the reason you hate ace discourse is because "it's annoying" and "aspec people are already accepted" people will assume you're aphobic -π
"Remember when asexuals invented a slur for themselves?"
.....actually, yes. And I remember that tumblr shit post VERY differently
KW: "aphobic and proud" "just wanna be oppressed" "boring orgin stories" "know ur troll meme"
The people who claim that βace inclus are bad tooβ never seem to understand that most of the βacesβ they use as examples of how ridiculous and hateful we are, are/were trolls pretending to be aspec to make us look like that.
No, aces donβt think βvirginβ is a slur.
No, aros donβt want to create the slur βarobotβ and reclaim it.
No, we donβt go around saying βstop killing us!β
If youβre βneutralβ because you dislike those things, consider why youβre so willing to believe the obvious trolls.
-π§π»ββοΈ
The reason we defend "cishet aces" so fiercely is that by using one's romantic orientation to invalidate the queerness of their sexual orientation or vice versa you are inherently invalidating the queerness of all Aspec people.