airil

[• @WordsCocoon]

reminder!

[cik petai 🍉 @AsyikinMusa]

Kepada suami beliau, cari lah isteri baru. Serius. Tak perlu hidup dengan manusia yang tak ada common sense. I cakap ni as a wife, as a woman, as someone yang dah lama kerja dan jumpa macam macam perangai manusia. So, leave while you still can.

Hari ni dinner lebih penting dari ziarah orang meninggal. Atuk suami sendiri pulak tu. Bayangkan level pemikiran macam mana. Esok lusa bila ada masalah besar dalam hidup, jangan terkejut kalau empathy pun tak wujud.

Nenek aku meninggal dulu, laki aku yang paling sibuk plan itu ini nak balik. Dari Penang terus shoot balik Kelantan. Esoknya patah balik semula sebab kerja. Takde pun berkira penat, masa, duit minyak semua. Sebab itu keluarga. Sebab itu hormat. Sebab itu common sense.

Kematian ni bukan benda boleh book slot ikut keselesaan hidup kita. Kalau boleh rancang waktu mati, ramai orang bahagia.

[k @alfkkifine]

One of the most brutal realities of the male experience that nobody talks about is the absolute "affection desert" they live in. A woman can get a hug, a genuine compliment, and deep emotional support from her platonic friends on a random Tuesday. A man can go an entire calendar year without another human being touching his arm, asking if he's okay, or giving him a sincere compliment. We’ve built a society where a man only gets to experience basic human warmth if he is actively providing for a partner. Outside of that, he is completely invisible.

[Asanwa.sol @Chizitere_xyz]

"Princess treatment" was historically the reward for a woman who brought immense peace, loyalty, and cooperative value to a man's life. It was never meant to be the baseline expectation for a woman who brings absolutely nothing to the table except a bad attitude and a list of financial demands.

[AZZURA | Parenting and Family Psychology @n_azzurajafri]

Yes.

I don't mind my husband keluar jumpa kawan. And I know his friends. Dia cakap dia pelik kenapa saya tak pernah halang.

Bcs I am a reader. And I know how important friendship is for both men and women sbnrnya.

Kalau I halang, ada lah tu sebab. Macam masa dah third trimester nak bersalin, I tak bagi dia keluar. Standby je kat rumah.

Kalau I tak larat dah nak urus anak, sila berada di rumah.

Most of the time I allow.

Same goes to me. Dia allow I sambung belajar, jumpa kawan, etc. Nak cerita pasal struggle motherhood, I better cerita kat my friends 😆

Sbb motherhood struggle ni beza dgn fatherhood struggles.

[airil @arlsky_]

Lama lama mcm ni boleh mental ek haih. Hari hari sama je

[airil @arlsky_]

2026 tapi mindset mcm b*d*h

[E • F • F • I • E 𝕏 @effie_mohamad]

Wahai kaum HAWA.

Kenapa setiap kali korang solat jemaah, banyak sangat isu Saf lopong?

Kalau sebab solat asing asing faham juga tapi kalau solat jemaah macam aneh pula.

Kenapa tak penuhkan?
Ada musuh kat depan ke?
Tak friend dengan jemaah tak dikenali?
Takut pencuri?

[ًِ @bckupacc99]

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[Deep Psychology @DeepPsycho_HQ]

Enjoy ordinary things.

[Lola Bashang Kowts ツ @imlolabashang]

I think I lost my spark. I don’t talk as much, I keep to myself, and I’ve mastered the art of distance. It’s not that I’m mad or bitter. I just don’t have the energy to show up the way I used to. Somewhere along the way, I slipped into this nonchalant phase.

[airil @arlsky_]

Feeling like a looser. But always act like okay every time.

[P @PikamonID]

Memilih cut off bukan berarti benci, kadang tentang menjaga diri.

[risk @risksaidon]

zaman dulu mak bapak kita takde pun group dengan cikgu-cikgu, elok je hidup. dah la cikgu kena layan perangai kau dekat sekolah, nak kena layan mak bapak bodoh kau lagi. i feel so bad for teachers

[gadis @pelukgadis]

in the end, we’re always alone.

[ඞ @lifeinchaos_]

very unpopular opinion: we really grew up in the best era to be a kid and the worst era to be an adult.