I wrote about the recent @taaap_org piece on "non-queer aspecs" (spoiler: those are not a thing) and what major aspec advocacy organisations could do instead of fueling the fires of exclusionists. https://t.co/60bAQ30P19
@aromanticwitch Abolishing the nuclear family. Dismantling amatonormativity. Legal, social, economic systems that work for everyone, not just those who want to get married and have children.
@acegirleatscake Honest question: what does it mean to desire a romantic relationship if you're aromantic? If an aromantic person and an alloromantic person offered the exact same things to a cupio, except the romantic attraction, would they choose the alloromantic person as partner?
@scretladyspider That's fantastic life advice. I think mine, after what I went through in my life, is:
Your life belongs to *you*.
Take care of yourself. No one else will.
Your well-being is your #1 priority. Not work or school or living up to someone else's expectations.