@femiblack Your assumption that he must not have spoken to the problem is still an assumption nonetheless. Human are social animals, that's the number one reason we have partners to do life with, and when your partner becomes your problem it's natural to socialize with someone else.
The first time my husband asked me,
โAre you enjoying this marriage? Are you happy you married me? What are the things I can do to be a better husband to you?โ. - I paused.
It didnโt look like he was playing, his eyes carried a depth of seriousness and sincerity. He wasnโt asking to be reassured. He truly wanted to listen.
I was a bit shocked, but deeply touched.
I told him how incredible he already was โ how grateful I was for the man he had been to me, for the ways he showed up, for the love he gave so freely. And then, I mentioned just one small thing he could work on. Not because it was something serious, but because I wanted to see if he truly meant what he said.
To my surprise, he became intentional about it. I noticed the effort. I saw the quiet conscious adjustments. And in those changes, I felt something even deeper than love โ I felt chosen.
Itโs been a few years now, and every so often, he still asks me those same questions. With the same seriousness. The same openness. The same readiness to hear me.
Iโve come to understand something beautiful: God may start a marriage, but it takes two people who intentionally choose each other โ again and again โ to sustain it.
Love is not just found in the big moments.โจSometimes, itโs found in a simple, sincere question: โHow can I love you better?โ
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In New Zealand, native Mฤoris protest against Islamic immigration and destroy the jihadist flag while performing the traditional Haka.
โNew Zealand is Christian. Muslims are not welcome here!โ