real alpha in helping people win. and helping people win can be as easy as transparently documenting your process. this transparency creates a multiplier effect: the people you help become part of your network, their wins build your rep, and sharing deepens your expertise. generosity at scale tends to come back in unexpected ways
So much of charisma involves being simultaneously different and normal. Different enough for people to see something in you but normal enough for people to still see themselves in you
You're a source of positivity but can still rant about some tomfoolery or say dude I feel you when others complain. Hustling and grinding but tell me all about your wild night. No seed oils but hey let the boys live. Don't be annoying about it
Really just about creating comfort and trust through the manner in which you carry yourself. Being able to rep your ideals without giving off this energy that you're secretly judging or monitoring
You're not one of us but like you also are. This guy's on a sick one but he's such a homie. I know you're looking out but not in a just looking out bro way