Ary ♉︎

if you hate women’s rights you’ll probably hate me too

[EarthtoGazelle @EarthToGazelle]

I was studying child development, & when a parent or adult hits a kid throughout their childhood, they can end up developing a dissociative disorder in adulthood. A child cannot physically escape abuse majority of the time, so they mentally go else where and detach mentally in order to protect themselves as much as they can.

So as an adult, whenever they experience pain, fear, or discomfort, especially from a loved one, instead of knowing how to work through it, or even leave the abuse, they dissociate in order to mentally escape, while being frozen in fear.

So beating your child teaches them not only is it okay for someone you love to hit you, but it also teaches them how to stay in abusive situations.

Hopes this helps for anyone who uses the line “my parents beat me and I turned out fine”.

I also learned how abused children can end up being highly imaginative and creative as adults because they’ve constantly flexed that part of their brain in order to create a new world in their mind, practiced from dissociating as a child. This isn’t really a positive either because they find it very hard to ground themselves and to be a part of society/reality. They end up being hermits, struggle with socializing and can pick up addictions much easier.

[Arch Budzar @ArchBudzar]

the memory changes

[Ary ♉︎ @aryonalayca]

@sareyoyd the withdrawals from antidepressants is not talked about enough. i’m so sorry you had to go through that

[Ary ♉︎ @aryonalayca]

my grandpa could. he requested to be taken home from the hospital so he could pass at home. as soon as he got home he asked for one more beer and then passed away.

[Model Drop Daily @Mellow_Xxi]

Do you guys think people can tell when they are about to pass away?

[Ary ♉︎ @aryonalayca]

@UrBrotherJoe petition to get ur dad on twitter

[Ary ♉︎ @aryonalayca]

this is training by instilling fear and it’s gross

[Ary ♉︎ @aryonalayca]

had to leave the career field i’m passionate about and now i start a filler job in a week. fighting for the will to live rn lolol

[em @eemmooree]

whoever has my voodoo doll pls give me a fucking break

[I Don’t Know @IDontKn19947709]

I am BEGGING y’all to read at least one book on domestic violence bc this isn’t being a girls girl, this is helping to isolate a victim further bc she didn’t respond how you wanted her to

[Ary ♉︎ @aryonalayca]

@oatmilklattez i didn’t need to see this rn

[Ary ♉︎ @aryonalayca]

adhd is wild bc i either took my meds 3 times or i didn’t take them at all

[Ary ♉︎ @aryonalayca]

the male birth control injection already being approved to be done under anesthetics while IUD’s still aren’t makes me absolutely fucking feral. to be a woman in america is to be treated like you’re not a person.

[Savia (artist)👩🏽‍🎨🎨 @saviaivas]

A mysterious 4th thing when I don’t call, text or FaceTime you but I think about you dearly.

[em @eemmooree]

i regret to inform you all,

that it is never that serious. hope this helps!

[samantha @milkygoddess]

grieving my old life while also acknowledging that i’m thriving in my current life is such a weird feeling

[Ary ♉︎ @aryonalayca]

“messing around” is a crazy way to spell rape

[SAY CHEESE! 👄🧀 @SaycheeseDGTL]

Missouri math teacher was arrested on 4 warrants for messing around with a 16 year old student. The father of the teenager was also arrested for knowing about the relationship & not reporting it to the police.

[Ary ♉︎ @aryonalayca]

this should be mandatory after child rape and/or murder, tbh

[Morbid Knowledge @MorbidKnowledge]

In 2006, Anthony Ray Stockelman was forcibly tattooed across his forehead with the words Katie’s revenge by another inmate after it was found out that he was serving time for raping and murdering a 10 year old child called Katie Collman.