Life so much better when you just let shit be. Don't trip, don't stress, don’t beg and don't keep repeating yourself. We old enough to understand the principle of things, & don't trip over nothing you can't control. Just accept the situation for what it is and move accordingly.
If your partner is struggling, having bad days, doing less, sleeping more, I can not stress this enough. PICK UP THEIR SLACK and do NOT throw it in their face or complain about it. Do it with extra love and a smile on your face because I promise you they need it.