A girl on TikTok said that the “Soft Girl Era” has nothing to do with pedicures & massages.. but has everything to do with releasing everything that has forced you to be HARD.
FELT! 📌
i hope this year you stop begging people to love you and instead, surround yourself with those who already have the capacity to love you the way you want to be loved. deeply, fairly, consistently and unconditionally.
Bees generally can’t fly at night, they use the sun as a compass. Even if the sun is behind clouds, bees can infer it’s position using patterns of polarised light
So they may sleep in flowers, many blossoms close up at night, creating a warm space
I love that feeling when you talk stuff out with someone and you both become aware that neither of you were wrong. You just saw the scenario differently. Talking really should be about seeing things from both perspectives, rather than the need to be right.
I woke up noticing something that i do that’s really toxic and unhealthy , I have a bad habit of continuously bringing up a situation that hurt me , just to get clarification . When the clarification was the situation .
I love people who can put their pride aside, apologize, and actually change their behaviour. That awareness, accountability, and emotional intelligence is soo attractive.
Adult friendships require GRACE. They’re not ignoring you or “being weird” they’re battling something mentally. It’s not always personal because they couldn’t make your birthday. I’m sure they wanted to but finances maybe made it not possible. You have to think beyond just you.
God doesn't want to give you money and lose you in the process. For God, who you become is more important than the physical things you get.
When you pray for something, God's priority is shaping you into a person who can handle what you pray before giving it to you.
That is love.