The problem with modern dating is over circulation of dating advice. A partner should complement what is already there. Otherwise it is prostitution disguised as a lazy delegation of duty.
Madam, what you are describing is prostitution with better public relations. The only difference is that you have replaced an hourly rate with a lifestyle requirement and called the arrangement “dating”.
And then, with astonishing confidence, you declare that only poor men will be triggered.
No. A man does not have to be unable to afford something to recognise that it has been priced.
If his bank balance determines whether he deserves access to you, why should he not ask what you bring that another woman cannot?
Beauty? There is always someone more beautiful.
Youth? Time is undefeated.
Sex? Desire alone has never sustained a civilisation, much less a marriage.
Status? Fortunes and reputations change.
The things that make a woman difficult to replace are rarely the things money can buy: character, wisdom, loyalty, peace, discernment, the ability to build with a man when the seasons change.
The poor man you ridicule may one day acquire money. But if money is the only language through which you recognise the worth of a man, no amount of money will cure your own poverty.
Akuume.
Meanwhile, after the burial on Saturday, Andrew Mwenda and his family held a party to celebrate King Oyo's death and burial. Some people can truly be wicked.
May justice prevail for the Queen Mother and King Oyo.
Mwenda's three controversial posts about #Tooro over the last 10 days have drawn 4.1 million combined views. And still counting.
The public needs to face reality: the man is untouchable. Call it a lack of empathy, but power isn't wielded by those moved by sentiment. Whether it’s Trump, Tibs or MK, these figures do not lose sleep over public outrage. They thrive on it.
Mwenda’s defining attribute is a total lack of sentimentality. He was once jailed for calling the President a "villager" on live radio. Guess who visited him in his cell? MK. His influence and access have only grown since.
Who else exchanges public missives with Tibs and gets summoned to State House to talk it over? His latest revelations won't land him in the Basement. He’s beyond reining in.
Long-time peers, including ministers, are effectively lightweights compared to his direct access. Secretly, they likely envy his proximity to power. It is what it is.