Some people don't want a healthy relationship.
They want immunity, freedom to disrespect you, ignore you, lie to you, and cross boundaries while expecting you to remain calm enough to avoid exposing it.
The moment your pain becomes visible, they call you the problem.
ketika orang lain bilang aku tidak berperasaan, tetapi mereka tidak tau berapa kali aku memaafkan orang yang nyakitin aku, walaupun tanpa kata maaf dari mereka.
@pallnandi She took his loyalty, his support, his love.
Then she walked and called it "self-discovery." His pain is her victory.
His loss is her gain. And everyone claps for her. No one asks about him.
A man can give his best years to a woman, build her up, stay loyal and still get left. Meanwhile society claps for her “finding herself.” His pain becomes her freedom story.
Kalo orang yang kamu bohongin masih baik sama kamu.
Itu bukan nya dia bodoh.
Tapi level moral nya diatasmu, kalo otak mu masih berfungsi harusnya kamu malu.
Orang lain punya aib, kita juga punya. Orang lain punya kekurangan, kita juga punya. Orang lain pernah melakukan kesalahan, kita juga sama. Sedikit Pesan, Jangan terlalu pintar melihat kekurangan orang lain, tapi buta dengan kekurangan sendiri. Ingat, tidak ada yang sempurna, belajarlah jadi orang baik, tanpa harus merasa diri paling baik.
@artfuIchaos I do not hate my life. I'm actually incredibly kind to people who deserve kindness. Demanding justice is not hate and I will never stop. If anyone finds it hurtful then they are the problem. Period end of story.