i used to think communication was the key until i realized comprehension is. you can communicate all you want with someone but if they don't understand you, it's silent chaos.
You deserve a healthy love with someone who sees you, hears you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. Someone who is consistent, communicates clearly, and creates a calm safe space to heal, grow and bloom together. A love you never have to heal from.
First born daughters are the hardest to love. It is hard for them to open up because people expect they are going to be okay anyway. They maybe independent, but deep inside they need someone to lean on. So be patient with them because trust me, they will love you the hardest;
I like to consider myself a reflective friend. You buy me gifts, I buy you gifts. You invite me places, I invite you places. You show up for me, I show up for you. You go hard for me, I go hard for you. You pay the bill when we go out to eat, I pay the bill when we go places(1/3)
you can be emotionally mature in some aspects & immature in others. you’re still human. you won’t always know what will trigger you until it does. i don’t strive to be perfect because that sounds more harmful than helpful. i strive to improve & feel great when i realize i have.
At this point in my life, it doesn’t matter how much I love you, how long I’ve known you, how much we’ve experienced together. If I feel a way about your actions, I’m gracefully removing myself from your life. I can’t change anyone and I don’t want to. I’m noticing now more than