love requires the annihilation of the ego.
to truly love is to surrender the self, relinquish possession, and let the Beloved become greater than your need to be loved back.
I think you should remain true to yourself and your emotions, and stand by them even when you're afraid someone might leave. It's not really love if you love like a coward.
I think you should remain true to yourself and your emotions, and stand by them even when you're afraid someone might leave. It's not really love if you love like a coward.
@H18_Z08 used to wonder why elders often used to make Dua of passing away before reaching a state of becoming medically dependent upon people but the older I get, the more I understand why.
may Allah make it easy for you and relieve you of this test.
حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل
That there was a dispute between him and some people (about a piece of land). When he told `Aisha about it, she said, "O Abu Salama! Avoid taking the land unjustly, for the Prophet (ﷺ) said, 'Whoever usurps even one span of the land of somebody, his neck will be encircled with it down the seven earths."
❝His statement: ‘It is the light [nūr] of the Prophet’: that is, he was called a light [nūr] because he illuminates inner perceptions and guides them towards right guidance, and because he is the origin of every physical and spiritual light.❞
— Imām Aḥmad al-Ṣāwī al-Mālikī
the hijabi is not here for me to advise her, brother. If she’d posted herself I would’ve responded by telling her how disgraceful and disrespectful her behaviour is.
the non hijabi however, is here and has done a lot of harm by posting her and inciting fitna within the community which is why the content of my post was addressed to her and her actions.
but yes perhaps you are right and I should’ve prefaced by saying the hijabi is completely in the wrong too although that wouldn’t have done much because we all know she is in the wrong.
I understand your point, and I sympathise with it. I am not defending the hijabi nor am I saying she’s in the right in any way. However, my post was addressed to the woman who decided to air the hijabi online to mock her whilst doing the same thing herself. It was a reminder to focus on herself before pointing fingers.
again I completely agree with this sentiment and it’s something that I often echo to a listening ear irl but I’ve also seen women pray and pray and yet their tests always seem to increase. Some people are just tested differently and not everyone has the courage to be a revolutionary so they tend to stay in situations that they know are not good for them, hoping that their prayers will eventually change things.