i’ve seen people workout at 4 am before working two jobs. i’ve known introverts who became great communicators when an important relationship needed it. i’ve seen people who weren’t “ready” suddenly commit to the right person. people give effort to what’s important to them
my grandpa once told me "do not tell anyone your business unless it benefits you that they know" as a yapper, i took that advice and never looked back. best thing i ever heard