Mfs be like ‘I distanced myself for my own health’ and abandon you at your worst after pushing so hard to get so close to you + encouraging you to confide / rely on them whilst knowing abt ur abandonment issues + everything you’ve been through like go fuck urself stupid bitch 😭
i hate being separated from you so much i just wish i could rip you away from your family, kidnap you, chain you up in a room and break your legs so you can't use them to escape my love for you
As someone who is the fp to someone with bpd you owe them the respect of at least telling them 'hey I'm here' at the MINIMUM. It's not THEIR fault they are relying on you, while it's their responsibility to try and manage it it is NOT an excuse to disrespect them. Fucking gross
BPD really is the worst because you could be on your last limb screaming and crying and begging for someone to just show a shred of sympathy, but then you're labeled as a manipulative abuser because you're hurting and want someone to care