Being a stoner isn't just collecting lighters and grinders. It's understanding your relationship with cannabis. Know your limits, respect tolerance breaks, stay hydrated, recognize depersonalization if it happens, understand strain differences, and never ignore what your body is trying to tell you.
i honestly think the most beautiful kind of love is when someone is sure about you, no mixed signals, no confusion, just consistency, effort, and a feeling that they truly want you in their life.
i keep a document on my phone called "things that felt like the end of the world but weren't."
every time i'm spiraling i add to it. then i read the old ones.
"didn't get into first choice college" (met my best friend at second choice).
"thought i'd never get over them" (can barely remember their face now.
it's becoming proof that i can survive everything.
even this.
Sex feels different when you never masturbate.
Getting drunk feels different when you have reasons to celebrate.
Spending money feels different when you’re rewarding yourself for your ambition and discipline.
Cheat meal feels different when you keep a strict diet.
Earn your fun.
I highly recommend you find yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who's super excited about you. Life is too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.
maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. It's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you.