Everybody wants to be in a relationship for years but everybody is not ready for the the bad days, the crying, arguments, communication going wrong. Relationships aren’t fairytales & it’s not easy. If you love each other, you have to stay solid through it all and make it work.
empathy burnout is real
after all these years of understanding the people around you, trying to put yourself on their situation, putting others first before you, and now you're drained & have became indifferent. +
i think the greatest thing that we can offer to someone is to be their peace, and safest place. after receiving their grudges from the world, battling their chaotic minds, indecisive sadness, and countless times questioning their worths - they have us. hugging their sorrows, and making them feel like this is their "genuine home”.
I am in a season of my life where I am not going to explain why I don’t want to do something in every situation. I don’t want to do it and my no should be more than enough for you.
We are done with over explaining just so the other person isn’t mad or sad at our no’s.
words of affirmation as a love language is seriously underrated. i mean, don’t you just MELT when a person knows which words they could use in order for them to lighten things up for you.
it’s never too late to change your behavior. if you dislike how negative you are towards others and yourself, find ways to change that. when you feel tempted to speak badly of others because you feel badly internally, stop yourself. challenge yourself. break the habit.
Tip to parents: Celebrate your children’s achievements. Because if you don’t, they might grow up feeling like the biggest achievements they’ve achieved aren’t actually achievements but requirements to make YOU happy and not them.
Now that I realized I grew up that way, I hurt.
alam niyo ok lang if lately bare minimum yung performance niyo,,,,,,,,, kase ako din eh, minsan nga underperforming pa HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA we're all just trying to survive u know, it's really hard these trying times :-)))))