outgrowing people is very real. we all bloom in different seasons and sometimes you might be evolving in different areas of life, faster than your peer or partner. it can be painful when you realize. will they catch up to you someday? maybe. thatโs none of your concern though.
my sweet boy has so much love for people who donโt even think twice about him except for a show or on their own time and that shit wrecks me everyday
@heyitsreginaa I had to grow them out for an ungodly amount of time due to a suspicious under skin lump but Iโm hoping this was as painful as itโll be going forward ๐๐
Lately, I've noticed everybody looks OK until you eventually have a deep conversation with them. And then, you'll realize that, this is a sad generation of people struggling to survive through smiling faces and pretty pictures.
We too grown to not understand how giving others grace works. People go through shit, more than youโll prob ever know & life be lifing. Itโs okay to get your head out your own ass sometimes & understand the world doesnโt revolve around just you.
How your partner was loved as a child will show up in: how they react when hurt, how they communicate during conflict, and how they respond when you share your feelings.