Y’all lack communication skills because instead of taking what the other person is saying into consideration... You become defensive because you only listening to defend the points that make you look bad. That's the disconnect right there.
Narcissists never apologize, they just rewrite the story to make themselves the victim. They’ll break you, then act broken. They’ll hurt you, then say you’re too sensitive. Accountability isn’t in their vocabulary, only blame, projection, and manipulation.
TO MAN, here's some advice
Lying to a woman to get what you want out of her doesn't make you a player it makes you a predator. Real men don't manipulate; they communicate
Quick question for the men.
Why go through all the effort to sneak around—texting, calling, DMing other women—when you could just be single and live freely? If you want to entertain multiple women, why not just stay a bachelor and move how you want without the lies?