Because no amount of "I love you" can erase the fact that you looked at my worth,weighed it against your urge and picked the urge. Cheating isn’t a mistake,it’s a decision. A deliberate, selfish act made while knowing exactly who it would hurt.
Religious men who pursue atheist women, traditional men who pursue progressive/feminist women, polygamous men who pursue monogamous women etc. these men want to bird you. You are the exotic bird they want to cage. They WILL mistreat you. It’s not IF, it’s a matter of WHEN.
The older I get the more I recognize that this is people coping with the unknown laws of the universe. It’s easier to lie to ourselves than to accept the fact that life is unfair
introverts dream life:
- two loyal friends
- one loyal partner
- pets
- a house near the woods
- a library with a fireplace
- making a living doing what they love
- silence