There are women who will perfectly be fine in a marriage where the husband only provides them with money and nothing else. And that marriage is valid as anything.
There are also women who will never be perfect with a marriage in which the ONLY thing the husband gives is his money. And the women who refuse to accept only that are well within their rights to demand for more.
There is nothing confusing between these two scenarios.
But a lot of our brothers choose to create imaginary blindspots between the two extremes for their own known reasons.
The people of Jannah, I’m back again, asking for your kindness.
Behind every fundraiser is a human being carrying a burden that has become too heavy to bear alone.
A young lady who is about to lose the only roof over her head and can barely afford her next meal.
Amount needed: N64,000.
A student whose certificate has been withheld because of an outstanding N3 million debt, and a mother battling a chronic illness with no source of income, desperately trying to stay alive.
We’ve reached out, we’ve contributed, we’ve shared, but it still isn’t enough.
Please don’t scroll past them. Today, you may be the answer to someone’s du’a. What feels small to you could be the difference between despair and relief for someone else.
No amount is too little. If you can’t donate, please share. May Allah ease your affairs just as you ease someone else’s, multiply your provision, and make your kindness heavy on your scale of good deeds. Ameen.
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No one is saying that 2 people with AS not marrying AS will ensure giving birth to healthy children.
HOWEVER, knowing the risks and scientifically backed analysis of a 25% chance of giving birth to an SS baby FOR EVERY PREGNANCY, and the attendant issues of managing a baby with sickle cell anaemia, for both parents, doctors, nurses and even the economy, it is totally irresponsible to step into that venture.
As a paediatrician, this is a hill I am unapologetically willing to die on.
Innalillahi wa inna ilaihir rajiun. Ammie cuta ta kare. I lost my sister (Ya Hadiza) this morning. Kindly include her in your Dua's. May Allah forgive her shortcomings and grant her the highest rank of Jannah.
Lol, many of you only bring up one aspect of Sayyidah Khadijah (رضي الله عنها) supporting the Prophet ﷺ financially, but are you prepared to discuss the rest of their marriage?
Are you ready to talk about how the Prophet ﷺ remained exclusively married to Khadijah for approximately 25 years, despite living in a society where polygamy was common?
The heads of these kidnappers are educated people amongst us. When our society glorifies sudden wealth, with no detailed source of income, how can we even get to the root of this matter. In an tambayi source of income din people living extravagantly, sai kuce ana musu hassada
In Zamfara, bandits gave captives knives and forced them to fight and kill one another. If they refused, the bandits killed them themselves.
There was also a village where 38 hostages were brutally slaughtered after the full ransom demanded was not paid.
These are daily realities in communities grappling with the menace of kidnapping and banditry.
Another Hausa name I came across a few days ago, whose meaning I still can’t forget, is Barmani. It comes from “Bar ma ni,” meaning “let it live,” as in “Ubangiji ya barmani” (“God, let it live for me”).