If I desire something and i give it my all, but every effort fails, I let it go. If it comes, fine. I have learned to stop forcing things to go my way.
When I meet people, I already have it at the back of my mind that this could be a lesson or a blessing. I just go with the flow with whatever life is trying to teach me.
Suppressing how much you care doesnโt make the feelings disappear, and it doesnโt make you gangster. It turns your silence into a lie you have to live with.
Stop being a coward. Sweeping things under the carpet isn't peacekeeping, it's slow poison. Speak your mind, even if it makes things uncomfortable. Confront issues!