Learn and grow and be outside of everything that has been taught to you: listen to others, understand them, uplift them. Be grateful, be knowledgeable. Be fucking better!!!
Not being on twitter gave me the most precious gift I could ever receive: life out there is much more than I could ever have and see here. And I swear I don't mean this in a condescending way: I mean it as in learn about your real life communities. Live in them. Learn.
I don't "know" what being butch means. I don't have and I will never have that knowledge: it's not my place to say. I know what butch means to me; and I know that I'd recognize someone who'd understand me not from their outfit, or their hair, but from their pose. Their stance.
When you talk about marginalized groups you are not a part of: you're committing a stupid, idiotic act. It's not your place: sit down. Delete TikTok. Actually read books. Support others. Stop thinking that there's only one way to be. We are not the center of the universe.
Okay I know I keep coming back here more often (I'll disappear soon) but I guess I just wanted to say: we HAVE got to get better. There is no other way: we have to be better. We need to learn and listen and THINK. We need to be better
We can shout about our lesbianism all we want; but we can never forget how it's not, and will never be, the only possible way to be a lesbian. How selfish and stupid to think so: we have got to get better.
Hi hope everyone is doing okay. Two things I wanna say before i disappear into the void (again):
You exist as a vast microorganisms that breathes & loves & grows and is much more than the sum of its parts
Queerness is an open door but it's not enough. We need to be better.
Kisses