Ada yang menasihati. Mau lewat jalur haram atau halal, rejeki kita sudah ditetapkan.
Kita tidak akan meninggal sampai semua rejeki kita diberkan.
Jadi, jika sedang di posisi dilema karena dapat tawaran pekerjaan yang prospek dan cuannya gede banget tapi haram, yakin saja saat memutuskan.
Misal ambil yang haram dan uang yang diperoleh sangat besar, maka rejeki lainnya akan berkurang. Misalnya kesehatan, ketenangan, anak, pasangan dll.
Misal ambil yang halal tapi uang yang diperoleh sangat sedikit, maka rejeki lainnya akan ditambah. Misalnya kesehatan, ketenangan, anak, pasangan dll.
Ambil halal atau haram, takaran rejeki kita sudah ditetapkan.
wow penghasilan kakaknya gede pasti.
awal nikah monthly cost saya cm 5 juta-an sebulan berdua sama istri.
gaji istri full buat dia, itu uang bulanan yg saya kasih.
apa cukup? ya gimana lagi incomenya mepet, karna harus saving jg, mode survive.
prinsip saya:
berapapun penghasilan saya hari ini, bagaimanapun keadaan saya hari ini, saya pastikan besok tidak akan sama, lusa tidak akan sama, apalagi tahun depan.
jadi upgrade diri terus, belajar ilmu baru, coba hal baru, upgrade networking, upgrade nyali dan keberanian
jangan hanya fokus ke angka2, berpapaun target pelan2 akan sampai jg Insya Allah selama kita konsisten upgrade diri.
semangat 🔥
After you get married, you’re going to meet ‘better’ people than your spouse. You’re going to meet more good-looking people; kinder and more romantic people; more intelligent and funny people. You will meet people who have in abundance what your partner lacks. The mushy and romanticized idea that your partner will be everything to you, and will satisfy all your needs and wants is idolatry. Contentment in marriage is a virtue not often spoken about.
You must wake up every day appreciating everything your partner is to you, everything they have, their beauty and the things that made you marry them because if you focus on everything they don’t do well, you’ll always meet better people. Protect your heart! See their best part, and always remember that your commitment to marry is more of a duty than it is of mushy feelings. You have to stay committed even on the days you feel your spouse is no longer the best fit for you…
-Buchi
@sitsnoe Ada yg bilang kl cwe Bahagia, tdk tertekan, tidak sedang dlm mode survival (gak ada Beban), sifat alamiah Femininnya keluar, jd dia sdh pasti makin cantik.. makanya kl ada yg menikah tp dia mlh jd g secantik sebelum nikah, itu sdh tanda2.. (tdk menggeneralisir tp kebanyakan gt)
Bener ya guys, its not just about him being good-looking or rich. Im looking for someone who makes me feel safe both financially and emotionally and of course someone im genuinely attracted to😇
saw a girl on tiktok who said "when you're being loved so genuinely, you no longer feel the need to post anything- because there's nothing left to prove" and I felt that 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹