“It Is Better For Our Mothers, Girls To Be Selling Akara, Kuli-Kuli And Boli Than To Be Doing Sugar Mummy And Hook Up”
- Youth Defend First Lady, Remi Tinubu
One experience during my surgery yesterday changed the way I think about life… and death.
While I was under anesthesia, there was… nothing.
No pain. No dreams. No thoughts. No awareness. No sense of time.
I didn’t know I had a wife. I didn’t remember my children.
I wasn’t thinking about my bank account, my businesses, or my unfinished plans. The RadioCom App, my baby project, was not remembered
My phone was with my wife, responding to important messages on my behalf.
Then I woke up.
That night, as pain kept me awake, one thought wouldn’t leave me:
One day, that temporary experience will become permanent for every one of us.
Surprisingly, it didn’t fill me with fear.
It gave me perspective.
It reminded me that we spend so much of life worrying about things we won’t even be aware of when we’re gone.
The Bible describes death as a state in which “the dead know nothing” (Ecclesiastes 9:5).
For me, that experience made those words feel deeply real. It also reminded me of something even more important:
While we are alive, love deeply. Forgive quickly. Be kind generously.
Because one day, all that will remain of us is the good or bad we left behind. ❤️
Think about that!
did 9-5 for for 6 good years and i couldn’t afford Tecno camon 16 on my own.
don’t underestimate 9-5 regardless. cus it helps you to pay ur basic needs and put food on your table while you look for other means to really get out of poverty.
rooting for everyone out there grinding hard, we will make it.
If you like no hustle.
my guy real real come house tell me say him spend 250k renovate him aparte. As my guy, I beg am make e lend me 10k register for IT. E say no. I even drop am to 5k, e still no gree.
As e commot, na once tears drop frm my eye.
One thing I've observed now that I'm 35+ is that careers are far less linear than we think.
People build incredible careers and businesses but what I've also seen is that sometimes things fall apart. Not because they're lazy. Not because they're incompetent. Not because they did anything wrong.
My wife doesn't know I cry in the car today before coming inside.
Before we married, she worked. Had her own money. We split things without even discussing it.
it just happened naturally.
That kind of partnership makes a man feel like he chose right.
After our wedding, I noticed she stopped.
Somehow every bill found its way to my lap. Rent. Feeding. Recharge cards.
Data. Everything.
I’m not the only one who witnessed that massive giveaway Bandits hosted on TikTok. The desperation from Nigerians especially the girls, was honestly shocking.
Account numbers (mostly OPay and MoniePoint) were flying across the screen non-stop during his live stream between 12:00 AM and 1:00 AM two nights ago.
The Fulani host ended up dishing out over ₦50 million, and the way people were shamelessly begging their so-called oppressors for money left me speechless.
Thousands were tuned in, glued to the live.
How did we, as a country, sink to this level? It’s genuinely heartbreaking.💔
I remember one company I worked for in Akure 😂
Every payday, HR will gather all of us: “Oya make a thank you video to the CEO.”
We go dey record like mumu: “Thank you ma”
for the salary wey I worked for o😭
Asin… the same salary I earned with my own sweat?
Madam, na my money na!
God abeg. Never again
Who else experience this corporate madness?
I post anonymous link.
Married men complaints are mostly related to economic concerns.
Married women complaints are mostly related to libido & sex.
Are you people taking notes?
“Small small, they are creeping into the South-West.” People wey don rent room already. Y’all don’t know that people have been paying ransom lowkey all this while??