@SouthsideTilly Admittedly though, those friends are mostly gay men. Of my friends who previously created porn but no longer do it, it’s one woman who is a lot more jaded about it.
Being an older zoomer (27) I feel blessed to be the last cohort not to believe in so much of the puritanical garbage thats becoming increasingly talked about online.
I grew up believing we were unshackling ourselves from sexual shame, and im worried we'll lose all that progress
A think that a vast majority of men who claim to be addicted to porn are actually just experiencing guilt because their actions are incongruent with their moral convictions (hence why religious people are far more likely to say they are addicted)
@SouthsideTilly Ngl I do agree that the only legitimate angle to critique the porn industry is a feminist perspective on the harms porn produces. I’m just not bought into the idea it’s 100% of all porn out there. I have several sex worker friends who enjoy producing porn as a part time job.
@mealdealtruther I wear a bang clip now, but the amount of people who pressured me to shave my head when I was a dysphoric lil egg was by far the largest source of dysphoria I’ve ever had lol.
@Cassperture Just had an argument on reddit with one because she hadnt read like half my message and i spent a solid 20 minutes politely trying to point it out but she was so mad she refused to read lol
@rjtheflamer Every detransitioner community I’ve ever been in is 99% ftmtf’s, not bevause they detransition more, but because because the average trans women can detransition at any point by getting a haircut and the average ftmtf is permanently masculinized. T is so obviously stronger lol
@ivymede My mom exclusively sends the same photos of the family from like 5 years ago, before my transition. She sent one to my grandma that featured my six year old nephew from when he was 1, just because it was the last one of me pre transition
@idiotbraingf Lowkey everytime I’ve seen a friend group take the test like five people get 0 percent age player, one person gets like 40 percent, and it becomes an awkward conversation
@AuriBlooms Way too tmi, but when my bf began abusing me it immediately made like half of my transphobic family members, all women, come around to the idea that I was one of them
@scarlettautumnn its also good to point out that small chests are totally okay to have. my sister has a cups, my mom has b cups. do i really NEED c/d cups to be a woman?
@goldfshwatercan@Fudanshiiprince She forced it to say it wasnt okay. I checked on a new account with no memories and gpt was okay with stuff like ageplay, cnc, and somno
@prairiedust Yeah totally, I’d never take it out on girls I just suffered silently. It’s why I get annoyed when I see girls post stuff about killing themselves under selfies 😭
@prairiedust Self report here but I absolutely used to avoid talking with people if they made me feel self conscious of my body because of envy. It’s a shitty attitude to have, I just think its less “I hate you” and more “I want to die” and I’d only hang out with girls who didnt cause that