Married women generally don't share their marital affairs. Once you see her going public, all internal structures (elders) as many are advised to lean on, have failed. Anyway, who was going to believe her when society finds every reason to blame women even when the men kill them?
And I think that’s why it’s hard for me to forge and maintain relationships, because a big ingredient in lasting relationships is the feeling that you would not want to lose the other person. But I really don’t have those feelings. There’s nothing that I can’t afford to lose.
Pan-Africanism lost me the moment it began treating immigration as a permanent solution,
instead of addressing the root causes that force people to leave their countries,
and when oppressive and narcissistic African leaders are glorified instead of being held accountable.