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Suicide is the biggest killer of young men.
87.5% of suicide (NIH) research funding is not gendered.
12% of funding is for suicide in women, and just 0.37% is spent on male suicide.
That means, 33 TIMES (!) more tax payer funding goes to researching suicide in women, than men.
Five years of dating a married woman, then he proposed. Her husband was shocked and so was everyone else. Some love stories don’t just break rules; they break people.
@OgbeniDipo@OyebamijiBola This is basic ignorance. Have you asked the civil servants who started and ended the half-salary? Did any of the elected and appointed officials get paid half-salary. I've lived in Ọ̀sun state close to 4 decades, I've never seen a political party embody utter hate this much.
I believe I am one of the few men alive capable of raising a truly elite daughter.
And by elite, I do not mean a sloppy zombie who cannot properly think for herself, nor an arrogant bitch who cannot yield to a good man.
I mean a special third thing: a woman with the best virtues of man (as much as a woman's vessel is capable), combined with the best virtues of woman synthesised into a harmonious and elegant whole.
I would ensure this, for it is only by incorporating the best of man, she can become the best of women.
I would teach her devotion: what true love actually is, and how to love.
I would teach her how to distinguish narcissism from clean dominance, and how to punish and reject the former whilst appreciating without stigmatising the latter.
I would teach her to find virtue desirable and attractive, and to love and to cherish the boyish feminine purity found deepest within man's soul, rather than feel disgust or disdain for it.
I would teach her how to argue, think, lead and follow, and to do each of these things well.
I would teach her accountability, honour, and integrity, which means I would teach her ruthlessness to discipline herself, and to ground her propensity for misplaced and runaway compassion.
I would teach her how to appreciate tenderness without mistaking it for weakness, and how to discern righteous ruthlessness from tyranny.
I would teach her about divine union, the merging of souls, the importance of soul purity, and how to prepare and save herself for her husband.
I would teach her how to fight: physically and mentally. She will know shame, yet be resistant to the bullying of others without becoming one herself.
I would teach her how to be confident and bold, without becoming callous, reckless, or ugly.
I would teach her how to transmute her pain into power, without becoming resentful, or addicted to the intensity of her own pain.
She would learn the virtues of darkness, for I would teach her what it is to be dangerous without being cruel. To pursue, to hunt, to colonise, to capture - unlike most daughters, mine won't see herself as a victim, but as a hunter - a predator in the best of ways - a conqueror.
The erotic, and its implications for her development, would of course belong to her husband, because there is an entire domain beyond the father where a daughter must undergo her becoming as a woman without him.
She will outgrow me, as she should, and it would be my task to prepare her to do so beautifully, rather than keep her tethered to me for my selfish benefit. A girl's final place is with her husband, not her father. And so to fail to prepare her for him and keep her with me, would be a sin.
I have acquainted myself with the flaws of various types of women, for in our intimate conversations, I was an ardent student of the feminine: she spoke to me, and so I vigorously studied her. It is in this way I met different fathers, seeing how they gave form to her, taking sharp mental notes of wherever he failed.
Each failure is a blueprint of what not to do: what was done in excess, what was done too little, and what should never have been done at all.
Failure is not the exception, but the rule, for there are many failure points, and so the path to paradise is narrow.
My daughter will learn from the failures of all the men and women who came before her, observed and analysed by the power of my mind, condensed into my knowing, masterfully poured into her through my love.
Nothing will go to waste, for she will be the beneficiary of all my efforts: my intellect and agony equally.
Creating an elite woman is thus one of the noblest and hardest things a man can do - which is precisely why they are so rare.
But the return if one succeeds, is truly unimaginable - rather than a train wreck, one gets to witness the glory of a true masterpiece in all her potent grace and violent elegance represent you as she inhabits the world.
When you see a great man, you think: that is awesome.
But when you see a great woman, you almost fail to believe your eyes.
You think: "what the fuck is that? Truly, I must be hallucinating."
For you are gazing upon a creature so rare, so mythical, and so beautiful, that a good portion of adult women cosplay as her without resembling even a fraction of her.
To raise a muse is such a divine task to embark upon, for the hardest task is the best task, and therefore the most worthy task, is it not?
A father is condemned to some level of ingratitude, mischaracterisation, or resentment. Look for a girl without issues with her father. No matter how great the man nor how kind he was, you will find none. He was too ruthless. He was too soft. He didn't save you from your mistakes. He never let you make your own choices. He spoiled you too much. He failed to provide. "He did the best he could" - yes, but beneath that, there is always a gripe, and within that gripe, a yearning - a hunger to be soothed. This is the wound, and it is inevitable.
Most husbands are left with the mess caused by their wife’s father, and they pay for his sins through her dysfunction: every woman brings a father wound into her union.
My philosophy has reached a point where I believe this wound is unavoidable. It is more a structural feature than it is an avoidable bug, because the healing of the wound is itself foundational to the process of marital bonding - a bridge between souls if you will. It is only the nature and severity of the wound that differs. It's presence is a given.
And yet I believe if you do a great job, the wound will be minor. Having only typical feminine insecurities that can be quelled through reassurance and presence, as opposed to full scale soul rot or identity fragmentation.
And so to do a good job is to make the wound serviceable as a bonding vector for her with her future husband, to serve as a tool in the truest sense of the word, rather than as a spiritual straitjacket that hijacks her, and binds her to deprive her of true love in this world.
As a mere mortal man, I am far from perfect, and so in the fallibility of my mortality, I will surely err. And yet any man who marries a daughter of mine would feel blessed and privileged to have her, because he would see the greatness she embodies by my hand and her own.
He would feel thankful he gets to profit from the mind of a man dedicated to the skilful creation of a woman beyond anything he could ever dream of, that through her he gets to benefit from my purest pouring, that his lips alone come to taste such sweet nectar, sipping on ambrosia.
No daughter of mine would be a coward or a loser, because I would bend the very fabric of reality to prevent it. I will prepare her to be beautiful. I will prepare her to win.
@aminu1oladimeji@Ol0ye@jidesanwoolu Not that the your generation of slaves you come from matters: You're inconceivably inconsequential derelict, showing nadir ganglia function for every redundancy in summation you call life. A life so worthless you've lived that a rat's piss will wash away. An unforgivable inquity.
@Karonwia@Kingkuti_ Ọ̀rọ̀ òfò lénu ẹyẹ. Was tuition not increased in Federal universities? Which had rebound effect on overall education cost because of hyper-inflation in economy caused federal government floating the Naira. Lunatics like you can't peel off thinnest layer of critical thinking.
@9ja_lastborn@Kingkuti_ Is this fool paying school fees? Have you had diagnosis that you're never going to be capable of using your brain due to neural atrophy? You brought a strawman argument, completely different from the original argument to counter. Are you not ashamed of the ghost brain your head?
@dimeji_MOA You're very stupid. Did your bestial father pay to have tertiary education? Ọmọ ìran ẹrú. When some of us were in university, we paid tuition that so affordable for large number of parents. This cankerworm of government increased the tuition, then rolled out loans.
@Adebaz95@Letter_to_Jack Who made Tinubu Yorùbá leader? Remove your head from sands of delusion and ask with candidacy; what has Yorùbá enjoyed or you personally from the administration of this wicked man?
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A govt that kills its people does not deserve to rule us:
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I envy the Israeli left.
Not their politics. Their freedom.
They march through Tel Aviv calling their own country an apartheid state. They go on CNN and call the IDF war criminals. They write op-eds in Haaretz comparing Israel to the worst regimes in history. They join NGOs funded by hostile governments to produce reports designed to delegitimize the Jewish state.
And then they go home. Sleep in their beds. Send their kids to school the next morning. No one threatens their family. No one disappears them in the night. No one drags them from their home.
Zero consequences.
Now imagine, just imagine, if Iranians had 1% of that freedom. If an Egyptian columnist could criticize Sisi the way Gideon Levy criticizes Netanyahu. If a Palestinian in Ramallah could call Abbas corrupt on live TV and walk home safely. If someone in Gaza could have held a sign saying "Hamas does not speak for me" without being executed.
The Middle East would be unrecognizable.
The great irony is that the people who enjoy more political freedom than virtually anyone else in the region use that freedom to paint Israel as a tyranny while the actual tyrannies they're silent about would imprison or kill them for doing the same.
You're not brave. You're spoiled. You mistake comfort for conscience. You scream "genocide" into a microphone the state itself protects, then sleep soundly in a democracy you spend your days trying to destroy, while millions across this region would trade everything they have for five minutes of the freedom you use to spit on your own country.
@BlessPaypig@Admiral_Cyborg This is an evidence to the fact that your lack genetic material to have an iota of mental capacity. Your lack of understanding and absence of value to assess an argument is a testament to your upbringing. I defended the facts before my very eyes, not these people.