Is there a limit for reading to be as an entertainment only? For me, it depends also on the goals. You feel it surely, "I want to read this book because I expect the story would be refreshing." or "I need to read this book, I might gain something from this." yada-yada 🐦
IMO, what's the deal for "smart enough for a certain book" first? Do we judge that by comparing our understanding of a book to others' opinions? If so, then for me, it's not defining level of smartness instead of interest level and reflection, and it's fine nonetheless.
So, how to be more critical? Talk and discuss it with other friends, I believe a critical person isn't a perfect witty, but they who would love to listen to others' takes on something and will count it as a consideration to value a thing.
Adek lagi seneng banget bikin ini—katanya omelet, sebelumnya kalau mau makan ini selalu minta buatin ibu, tapi karena sekarang dia suka, jadi masak sendiri dan selalu disisain setengah buat aku 👨🏿🍳
Sependek yang kutahu dan pernah kubaca, kamar tanpa jendela ini juga mengurangi paparan sinar matahari masuk di siang hari yang bisa berpengaruh pada produktivitas seseorang bahkan memicu kemungkinan depresi.
I THINK it's lovely to just appreciate a book's vibe. it seems like a lot of reading is hellbent on understanding every single thing & being able to explain it, but reading for pleasure doesn't have to be smart 🐧💬 "i don't get it but it makes me feel things" is quite gorgeous.
Di post ini ada yang tanya,
"Emang gimana sih marah yang gak nyakitin diri sendiri dan orang lain?"
Kita coba tanamkan dulu kalau
Marah ≠ Agresif
Apa yang membedakannya? Kontrol.
This red guy is not a bad guy.
Nama dia adalah marah, bukan kekerasan apalagi kriminal 🥲
The best and safest way to stop any jokes or mockery thrown to us is by riding or having it together, it might beats us tho at first, but will be less humiliating later. Just say "Memang", and they won't strike you down again for they thought have failed irritating you.
Eh, tapi iya ya kadang kalau orang salah paham dan kondisi sebenernya lebih baik (mungkin) dari yang mereka kira tuh malah sungkan jelasinnya, biarin aja deh gitu. Tapi sebaliknya, kalau kondisinya sesuai justru kadang jadi sedikit ofensif. Kenapa kira-kira? 🤔