People talk a lot about self-love but aren’t actually ready to do what it takes to truly get there. Self-love isn’t just massages, spa days, yoga retreats, & facials. It’s setting firm boundaries, not just with your words, but through your actions. It’s staying away from people that can’t meet your standards, even if it means letting go of someone you really love. It’s holding people accountable for wrong shit they did to you, even when they hate you for it. It’s choosing yourself over keeping toxic people around, even when it gets lonely. It’s a series of hard decisions that may hurt in the moment but you’ll thank yourself for later. That’s self-love & there’s nothing pretty about it.
Normalize not forcing connections with people. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don’t try to convince them. Don't waste your energy trying to force something that isn't meant to be.
How’s your Monday going? I’m currently waiting for my glasses to come out of the washing machine because I forgot that they were in my pocket. Is it bedtime yet 😅🤦🏼♀️
Skies clearing over Buckingham Palace with the arrival of a double rainbow. Call me a sentimental fool but it looks like the sign of a heavenly reunion.