Putting together a resource list for those needing mental health support after being affected by the hurricane in FL, GA, SC, NC, and TN. If anyone knows of any therapists/orgs willing to provide free/low-cost services in these areas, please let me know. #therapistsconnect
Be the one to check on a friend you haven’t heard from in a long time. Be the one to make service workers jobs a little easier. Be the one who asks if someone who looks down is okay. Be the one who lives by their values each day.
Today’s passage in the Daily Stoic. There’s often a misconception that the Stoics avoid or suppress their emotions. But in fact they encourage you to face them head on.
I learned my lesson early on to schedule dentist appointments after all my sessions for the day. Never want to do a session with a numb mouth ever again.
Attempting to come up with a definition for therapist block. Suggestions are welcomed!
Therapist block: the inability to be fully present with a client due to the internal pressure of saying the “right thing.”
An example of this is that I have a tendency to do what I call desperate research before sessions in fear that I will not know how to respond to something. I drive myself nuts trying to ensure I say the right things.
I also think it can be caused by an overloading of information about all things mental health that interferes with the brain’s ability to recall that information in the moment.
This has led to me voraciously trying to consume as much knowledge as I can.
My epiphany was that I’m doing TOO MUCH. My head is so full with quick facts that it limits my presence when I’m with clients and I experience “therapist block.”
I recently had an epiphany about why I feel so anxious before my sessions at times. It’s due to assigning myself the role of “the all-knowing therapist.” (1/3)
I desperately want to be the therapist with all the answers. The one who makes profound statements that leave a client spellbound and leads to immediate change. The one who knows anything and everything (2/3)