Carl Jung was right when he wrote that if a man does not face his shadow by age 35 he will not improve. He will calcify. His defense will become his personality.
Avoid marrying a woman you cannot correct , advise or direct . Because marriage is not a playground of emotions , it is a journey that requires order, respect and wisdom
I have financial needs
You have financial needs
We're meant to be partners, you can't compliment my financial needs
But I'm meant to always be available for your financial needs despite us both being adults with a job and that's what determines my level of usefulness in the relationship to you and how much you'll commit or not but all that determines yours is just showing up and continually being a beneficiary cos that's how it's meant to be, whether it makes sense to you or not doesn't matter to you
What an amazing generation we're in 😅