PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
"Don't reply fast", "don't show you care", "don't be a homebody", "don't always be available"
I'm grown please, if I have to play these kind of games for someone to be interested in me then I'm no longer interested. I operate best when I can be my full and authentic self.
if you're not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it won’t work for me. because i’m very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone and not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me.
I saw a post that said:
“Men really think if you liked them once, you’ll like them forever. Baby, I don’t even like the version of me that liked you.”
Listen. YES. This
I have so many people that genuinely love me that it makes it very easy for me to spot the signs of someone not liking me. No matter how subtle the energy, it’s peeped. And once I peep I move accordingly.
Always choose u. cause when you start choosing you, you start attracting everything that is also choosing you. self love is the highest frequency that attracts everything you desire. Prioritizing yourself shifts how the Universe responds to u. you're signalling that you're worthy