I think the reason acts of service is my love language, is because it demonstrates how that person can show what they can do to appreciate someone in real time, instead of saying things without follow-up actions. I enjoy making life easier for the people I love.
I don’t believe Kevin Samuels is dead, for the record. But me not feeling bad if he is doesn’t mean I’m “celebrating” it. He went out of his way to be cruel.
We are not required to mourn virtues he didn’t show. And asking black women, of all ppl, to show tact is audacious