I once read that we should say to our kids, "You must be so proud of yourself," instead of, "I'm so proud of you" because they'll grow up intrinsically motivated rather than motivated only to please others. I've been doing this for 10 years, and I swear it's legit.
@PostofficeSa online tracking system of incoming mail seems clunky. 18 Days since a parcel arrived at JIMC and no more information available online. What does a girl need to do to find her parcel? #postSA