falling in love isnโt scary at all when the person youโre falling for shows up for you consistently, is considerate of your emotions and speaks your love language. iโd imagine at that point, it doesnโt feel like falling at all. floating in love perhaps.
Hardest thing for me to grasp as an adult is you have to keep showing up no matter how you feel. You have to do it when youโre sad, do it heartbroken, do it grieving, do it tired. Life doesnโt care, it waits for nobody, you just have to keep going