Patriarchy wasn't invented. It was EARNED.
Men didn't sit in a circle one day and say "how do we oppress women?"
They were too busy trying not to let their entire bloodline get WIPED OUT by animals or invaders or bad weather.
Before feminism. Before 9-5s. Before police. Before DoorDash. There was nature, and nature is TRYING TO KILL YOU.
Someone has to kill the bear, the wolves before it kills your baby.
Something has to fight the rival tribe that wants to rape your wife and behead your sons and steal your land.
Something has to lift the boulders, chop the trees, climb the trees, build the wall, dig the trench, stand watch at 3AM in -20 degrees while his family sleeps.
Who? Tell me who does that? Women?
MEN DID IT. Because only men COULD do it.
Patriarchy is not a conspiracy. It is biology meeting survival. Men took the role of the expendable sex because someone HAD to be expendable.
And expendable they were.
The deal was simple and brutal: Women are protected and cherished inside. Men are sacrificed outside.
Women got safety. Men got the grave.
That system built every civilization on earth. Every house you live in, every road you drive on, every freedom you have was paid for by male corpses you will never know the names of.
So when you say "patriarchy oppresses women," what you really mean is "I'm ungrateful that men died so I could live long enough to hate them. If they had given you rights and freedom 400 yeats ago, humanity would have gone extinct.
@gulu_yen@Mo_Sznn@dayveed_2 are you dumb? how is that splitting bills, out of 700k he has 500k, he’s wife supporting him with 200k since he doesn’t have is such a big deal?
No woman is dating just one man. As long as you are not married to her, you are just another option in her pool.
I know you will read this and start arguing with me, but your emotions are useless to me. Your woman is always available to other men. You may be the one she's interested in the most, but you're not and will never be the only one.
The mistake most men make is that they try to own a woman. That is a mistake that will destroy your life. Wise men never own a woman they only manage women until the point where she becomes difficult to manage, and they let go and switch to another woman.
Women are creatures that are always looking for the best options for themselves. And one thing you must know is that you will not always remain the best option to her, because in their mind, they always believe that there is a better option out there for them.
No matter how hard you try to satisfy a woman, you will not win. No matter how hard you try to sacrifice your money to own a woman, you will not win. No matter how much effort you put into making a woman stay loyal to you alone, you will never win.
The best you can do is to always place yourself above her. Your needs and happiness should come first before hers, bro. So that at any point, if she decides to fall back to her humanity, it will not destroy you.
STAY GUIDED!!
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she dey laugh dey call you bad guy say you get game.
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