and i don’t think a 35 year old man dating a 22 year old girl will understand why she sits down in one spot for 2-3 hours editing Tiktok videos for her business or following trends that will give her visibility
i feel like as a guy, the older you get, the older you should date, and the older you get, the less business you have with certain age groups when it comes to dating.
cos if you’re 22, and a 35 year old man tells you to enter kitchen when you’re very tired, even with all the giran and agidi in your body, i don’t think you can talk yourself out of that situation cos y’all aren’t reasoning on the same level.
and that’s usually their age range, but omo, i don’t understand why someone 10-12 older than you will be plowing you, or what will the two of you even be discussing.
someone that was born and was in Primary 4-5 before you even became an embryo.
and women too, as you’re 19,20,21,22, i don’t know what your business is with someone that’s 33,34, when it’s not trouble you’re looking for. and the reason y’all go for that age range is cos you’re looking for financial stability or someone who’s already okay and ready to settle
what do you people want to discussing on an intellectual level ? plus your age will make her scared to even open her mouth to have certain conversations with you cos omo, you sef na baba to a certain extent. so it’d be an uneven situation in my opinion.
so if you’re like 24-27, dating a lady of 19-22 is okay, but when you start pushing 30-33, i don’t see why tf you would be dating a lady of 19-22. that’s like 10 years in between y’all.
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“once a guy asks me for money, i start to lose interest”.
from Monday till today, that’s the wildest shit i’ve heard on this internet.
firstly, you need to have bastard money to be able to say audacious shit like that. i’m talking oil & Dubai money, as a woman
men don’t really send that much, so you see that PICK ME you don’t want to be, most of you go still do 4 years course for that career, and you know it’s serious when you take it to church and vigils.
and these ladies in that comment section have asked for one or two from someone, but they will never call bad thing out, it’s to be scissoring and licking the ass of everybody they see so that they won’t be called PICK ME.
we’ve seen so many Twitter scenarios of posts like this popping up after you’ve found someone you really want to settle down with, and it just puts that person off, but una no deh ever learn anything.
women who have turned it their life goal to ask for 2K from every man with a social media account, they have no jobs, they have no serious dreams, just wake and beg. so it’s not the same thing.
so you’re basically just being disgusting.
if a man makes that statement, just know he’s referring to women who have assumed the roles of Almajiri and Julius Berger, not genuinely stranded responsible women.