The secret to being a private person is to overshare dumb shit so that people think you’re an open book but then not tell them any of the important details of your life
The sky is literally the limit
Let's say you want to buy a BMW,
But there are Lamborghinis and Bugattis that others drive as well.
Let's say you want some apartment,
But others literally have multiple mansions one to live in and others for vacations.
So change your standards.
Otherwise you won't get to the highest possible levels and truly be happy.