@AMekroun It is really hard with kids nowadays but you sure have a big part of the share of the blame if she is having sex at 12 and more so not protecting herself. You putting the video online doesnt make you blameless in this.
Advice for every mom and dad ๐ถ๐ค
Avoid lifting a child by the arm. Shoulder joint and nerves around it are sensitive.
Carry them from under the armpits with support for the body.