If you want to marry a submissive woman who will respect you,
Marry a woman from communities we consider "hardship communities"
• Maasai
• Turkana
• Borana
• Somali
• Giriama
• Taita
• Pokot
• Tugen
• Teso
Especially if they grew up in their families.
They have lived in situations that call for patience and humility.
No matter how tough your marriage becomes, they will endure everything.
They will remain respectful and submissive.
They are good women.
I didn't say you marry them from the city. The Gilbey Dragons will stress you for nothing.
Get them from their villages.
Remember, you are marrying a mother of your children, a woman whom you will live with for the rest of your life.
Don't gamble.
Women from Murang'a are very enterprising and hard-working.
The problem is that, due to Kikuyu gender dynamics, a Murang'a woman can only submit to a Kiambu Man, and sometimes a Kisii man.
Be hard on yourself.
Be rebellious.
Don't accept what the masses have "normalised."
The threshold of normality is so low nowadays. Don't let it become your standard.
People today have normalised mediocrity, feelings, incompetence, dishonesty, victimhood, lies and shortcuts.
They know how to gaslight you when they can't compromise your belief system.
Build a tamper-proof belief system that can't be compromised.
Have high standards and remain FIRM, FOCUSED and FAITHFUL.
Running a business is like going to the river to fish.
You should be as patient as the sunrise and have the faith of a mustard seed.
Be patient.
Challenges will come.
But remain unbowed.
Put your foot down and refuse to compromise your values, ethics and standards.
I was in a certain corporate office today and the amount of feminine energy in those spaces is disgusting. The men look like castrated dogs and the women are fat and loud. Unaingia kwa ofisi ni kama umeingia kwa choo za wamama. I wonder how men survive in those effeminate establishments.
Sometimes you might think your parents did not raise you well because they never gave you a financial head start, until you log in to social media.
Then you exhale and silently thank your parents for raising you to be a morally conscious human being.