@hlarryious@deliveryboygf yes. if somebody calls themselves butch or femme and proceeds to engage in transphobic or racist behavior then i am absolutely going to say “no, you’re not.”
@hlarryious@deliveryboygf this isn’t me saying butchfemmes are incapable of doing wrong. this is me saying the whole point of identifying as butchfemme is being political, uplifting POC and transgender lesbians. if you don’t do those things then the identity doesn’t fit you.
@hlarryious@deliveryboygf i literally do not give a fuck about whatever fallacy i’m using. if someone who ids as butch or femme is transphobic then they are NOT butch or femme. it’s like saying you’re a lesbian who likes men
@deliveryboygf@Jennieboopp butchfemme isn’t a group you’re born into, it’s a political identity and you literally cannot be part of it if you don’t include transgender people
the concept of somebody “speaking up” for diabetic people and then telling me, a diabetic person, to shut up and “it’s not that deep” when i tell them that’s not how it works is kinda wild ngl
@berrypurrfect@michelethebnnuy i was diagnosed at 8 and i’ve never done anything stupid, middle schoolers are old enough to manage their condition. you might not have said it but you implied it unintentionally or not
@berrypurrfect@michelethebnnuy diabetic people aren’t stupid and it doesn’t work like that. type 1s aren’t supposed to eat sweets without the nutrition facts because insulin mismatch is dangerous, and that isn’t enough to hurt a type 2. i’m diabetic fyi