been nothing but nightmares when i sleep for weeks on end. last night featuring the anguished screams of a mother who lost their child (from almost 20 years ago, the sound will never leave me).
ppl told me I was shy, quiet, standoffish, self-conscious, anxious, lacked confidence, needed to be more assertive, etc.
they considered their "feedback" to be "helpful & necessary" for my "growth & development" thus I should be "grateful" for their "constructive criticism" π«
If anyone knows this couple please let them know I have some pictures of the marriage proposal which took place, today around 3pm in Bourton on the Water. I was too late and lost sight of them before I could reach them.
@MEHtheNurseTwin come on, we all know as soon as joint commission is there, or some clipboard holder, those gloves immediately shred upon contact with your hands lol
@thehouseofpod its the release of pressure for me *ah* (sorry derm, I know, I know). Not me side-eyeing any juicy pimples/scabs on my adult children and offering my services π
@AutisticCoach_ Itβs decent, I guess? Being the nurse of the family I take care of my parents. My relationship with my brother is less than what I wish it was, but π€·ββοΈ. The rest of my family is distant and I donβt have the energy to put towards them anymore.
TW: depiction of a neglected bird
Education can prevent relinquishment for these common reasons:
1. Noise
2. Cost
3. Messiness
4. Biting/aggression
5. Difficulty to train
6. Not enough time or space
7. Feather destruction
Source: KAF Parrot Relinquishment (KAFPR) survey
Living with trauma is itself a trauma.
It's not "just" about what happened "back then." It's also the however many years since of flashbacks, nightmares, dissociation, body memories, mood swings-- & the struggle to pretend it's all, you know, just a scratch. A mere flesh wound.
Thank you insurance, I am now completely out of humalog. Awesome. Thankful I live with other t1d, or Iβd be in DKA rn. Havenβt had a pump since yesterday. Just existing on novolog. π«
children who are constantly criticized
grow into teens who learn to hate themselves for failing to live up to othersβ expectations
who grow into adults who reflexively over-apologize because they have been conditioned to believe they are always disappointing everyone